Heading back home and takin’ my time.

After almost a month down south, it was time to head back up north to the snow and ice. I planned to take my sweet old time, and wanted to do some sight-seeing and also connect with folks that I hadn’t seen in a long time. My first stop was Augusta, Georgia, where I had booked a small apartment through AirBnB and hoped to explore along the Riverwalk.





The apartment was actually quite nice and roomy – except for the curiously tiny bathroom. When the weather cleared, I did take a stroll down on the river. But the whole city was oddly deserted; a friend later told me that this was a “summer destination.” Who knew? At any rate, I was happy to rest and watch Netflix in more luxurious place than the Chicken Coop.



After 2 days of sluggish rest, I continued north towards Raleigh. I stayed in another AirBnB, right near the city center. I had an early supper at an excellent little West African joint. Chicken and Jollof rice, a staple in Nigeria and obviously homemade. They also had homemade lemonade which was excellent.

The next day, I connect with Emma, my daughter’s half-sister. It was fun, because I know her (of course) but she is quite a bit younger than my kids and so I’ve never really sat down and talked to her. At 29, she is a very self-posessed and interesting young woman and we had a great time chatting over crepes.

She gave me several suggestions of where to go in Raleigh – unfortunately it was Monday, so all museums were closed and the weather was cold, windy and not really conducive to being outside. However, the sun DID peek out later in the day and I had a nice walk in the sculpture park.






Later that same afternoon, I discovered a hidden “treasure” (well, only a treasure if you are a fan of trains and their history.) There is an old engine turntable, that was part of an actual roundhouse in downtown Raleigh. It’s listed on Google Maps, but there is no sign or anything directing you there. I followed the map and ended up at what looked like a dead-end, but I could see railroad tracks above the rise. I pulled into a small parking lot next to a building and an older black man came out and looked at me rather suspiciously. He said, “Can I help you?” and I explained that I was looking for the turntable. His attitude changed immediately and he knew exactly what I was talking about. He told me where to park and said I had to walk up the hill. I walked up the gravel and through what seemed to be a genuine “Hobo Camp” of old. Nobody bothered me, although I got a couple of curious looks. When I got to the top, I could see the turntable and remnants of the foundation of the roundhouse. It was actually pretty cool.









It is called the “Seaboard Air Line Railway Turntable.” This is an arial view.

More snow was predicted for the next day, and I had plans to head up towards Richmond. I left early enough to beat the worst of it and met up with my friend Glynn, whom I hadn’t seen in well over 30 years! We worked together at the Bay Farm Academy Montesorri School – she was the art teacher. It was so fantastic to catch up…both our lives have taken many twists and turns since those days.

By the time we had finished lunch, the snow was looking more like the real stuff. I headed up towards Fredericksburg, where I had booked a Days Inn. Gotta love a Days Inn – they’re cheap, convenient and the room had all the basics. I ordered pizza and spent the next six hours knitting and bingeing episodes of “Law & Order – SVU.” A perfect evening.
The next day, although there was serious snow on the ground, it wasn’t coming down from the sky anymore. The visibility was still not great, but I took my time getting up to Tacoma Park in Maryland, where I met another old friend from my time in London. Anthony, who is originally from New Zealand, was my traveling companion for most of the time I lived in the UK – he was funny, bright and up for anything. Now he lives in Maryland with his wife and two beautiful kids and a few more gray hairs. He treated me to lunch at a Thai place and we had a great conversation and a few laughs. They are moving to Australia in the fall…so I’ll have a reason to visit that country!

Then I head over to the little town of Cockeysville, right outside of Baltimore, to touch base with my dear friend Connie. Connie was one of my first “messageboard” friends back in the crazy days of TORC (TheOneRing dot com) and the Tolkien fandom. When I met her for the first time, it felt like I’d known her forever. She is one of my few friends who is as much a Star Trek nut as I am. We ordered Italian and drank some wine while we watched several episodes of “Strange New Worlds” and reminisced about…well, everything.

I crashed at Connie’s and the next day continued on through New Jersey, where I had lunch with Rosemary. I met Rosemary after my friend and colleague Bill sadly passed away. She is his sister and during Bill’s last illness, we were in touch via email. We met up first the first time shortly after that and I promised if I was ever in in the area again, we’d get together. She’s a real “Phillie girl” – no nonsense, down-to-earth and funny as hell. Talking with her, I feel like my friend Bill (“Billy from Philly” as he used to call himself) is still around.

Rather than push all the way home from New Jersey, I decided to take it slow, stay over night in Nyack and drive over the Tapanzee Bridge in the morning. (Avoiding the treacherous cluster-f*ck of the George Washington Bridge!) I had a decent hotel, ordered in Chinese food from a local joint and watched more Law & Order. The next day, it was only a 3 hour drive home! When I arrived, I had this waiting for me in my kitchen!


It was good to be home – and just in time for the next snow storm!
Like the twilight in the road up ahead
They don’t see just where we’re goin’
And all the secrets in the universe
Whisper in our ears
All the years will come and go
Take us up, always up
We may never pass this way again




















































































